FriGay the 13th Horror Podcast

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FriGay the 13th Horror Podcast explores horror—in real life AND in the movies—from an LGBT perspective. Horror films aren’t just an escape–we believe they're a mirror to the horrors we face in real life, and our show offers strong opinions for our audience to consider and engage with.

www.frigay13.com

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Contact us: frigay13@gmail.com

-a proud, independent podcast-

Recent Episodes
  • EPISODE 140: THE ECONOMY IS TERRIFYING
    Mar 28, 2025 – 02:09:06
  • EPISODE 139: RESISTANCE IS TERRIFYING
    Mar 14, 2025 – 02:05:12
  • EPISODE 138: PHOTOGRAPHY IS TERRIFYING
    Feb 28, 2025 – 01:48:50
  • EPISODE 137: TOYS ARE TERRIFYING
    Feb 7, 2025 – 01:52:23
  • EPISODE 136: SPORTS ARE TERRIFYING (WINTER EDITION!)
    Jan 24, 2025 – 01:59:20
  • EPISODE 135: FAMILIES ARE TERRIFYING
    Jan 10, 2025 – 01:55:38
  • EPISODE 134: 2024 WAS TERRIFYING!
    Dec 13, 2024 – 02:00:04
  • Holiday Rewind 2024: THANKSGIVING IS TERRIFYING
    Nov 29, 2024 – 01:51:18
  • EPISODE 133: PODCASTING IS TERRIFYING
    Nov 15, 2024 – 01:59:38
  • EPISODE 132: FARMING IS TERRIFYING
    Nov 1, 2024 – 01:55:15
  • EPISODE 131: HALLOWEEN 2024 - HAUNTED HOUSES ARE TERRIFYING!
    Oct 18, 2024 – 01:58:10
  • EPISODE 130: HOOKUPS ARE TERRIFYING
    Oct 4, 2024 – 02:00:13
  • EPISODE 129: GRAVEYARDS ARE TERRIFYING!
    Sep 20, 2024 – 01:58:13
  • EPISODE 128: THE MILITARY IS TERRIFYING!
    Sep 6, 2024 – 02:02:26
  • EPISODE 127: URBAN LEGENDS ARE TERRIFYING!
    Aug 23, 2024 – 01:57:22
  • EPISODE 126: THE WOODS ARE TERRIFYING!
    Aug 9, 2024 – 01:54:10
  • EPISODE 125: REALITY TV IS TERRIFYING!
    Jul 26, 2024 – 02:09:54
  • EPISODE 124: RIDE SHARES ARE TERRIFYING
    Jul 12, 2024 – 01:55:07
  • EPISODE 123: PRIDE ISN'T TERRIFYING!
    Jun 14, 2024 – 01:55:03
  • EPISODE 122: ALIENS ARE TERRIFYING! Vol. 2
    May 31, 2024 – 01:52:15
  • EPISODE 121: MOTHERHOOD IS TERRIFYING!
    May 17, 2024 – 02:02:17
  • EPISODE 120: PUBLIC TRANSIT IS TERRIFYING!
    May 3, 2024 – 01:58:31
  • EPISODE 119: MAGIC IS TERRIFYING!
    Apr 19, 2024 – 02:03:43
  • EPISODE 118: SPRING BREAK IS TERRIFYING!
    Apr 5, 2024 – 01:48:29
  • EPISODE 117: FANDOM IS TERRIFYING
    Mar 22, 2024 – 01:55:59
  • EPISODE 116: SOCIAL MEDIA IS TERRIFYING! Vol. 2
    Mar 8, 2024 – 01:53:55
  • EPISODE 115: GASLIGHTING IS TERRIFYING!
    Feb 23, 2024 – 01:57:38
  • EPISODE 114: GETTING OLD IS TERRIFYING!
    Feb 9, 2024 – 02:14:39
  • EPISODE 113: DRIVING IS TERRIFYING!
    Jan 26, 2024 – 02:04:37
  • EPISODE 112: 2023 WAS TERRIFYING! 2024 LIVES!
    Jan 12, 2024 – 02:24:32
  • EPISODE 111: THE HOLIDAYS ARE TERRIFYING!
    Dec 8, 2023 – 02:12:21
  • EPISODE 110: DRAG IS TERRIFYING
    Nov 24, 2023 – 01:51:18
  • EPISODE 109: BROADWAY IS TERRIFYING
    Nov 10, 2023 – 02:00:00
  • EPISODE 108: HALLOWEEN 2023!
    Oct 31, 2023 – 02:09:45
  • EPISODE 107: SUPERSTITIONS ARE TERRIFYING
    Oct 13, 2023 – 02:00:01
  • EPISODE 106: MOVIE THEATRES ARE TERRIFYING
    Oct 6, 2023 – 02:00:16
  • EPISODE 105: DRUGS ARE TERRIFYING
    Sep 22, 2023 – 02:00:56
  • EPISODE 104: SORORITIES ARE TERRIFYING
    Sep 8, 2023 – 02:00:10
  • FRIGAY << REWIND: CLIMATE CHANGE IS TERRIFYING
    Aug 26, 2023 – 01:56:59
  • FRIGAY << REWIND: SLEEP IS TERRIFYING
    Aug 11, 2023 – 02:14:18
  • EPISODE 103: SPORTS ARE TERRIFYING
    Jul 28, 2023 – 01:58:55
  • EPISODE 102: PATRIOTISM IS TERRIFYING
    Jul 14, 2023 – 01:55:55
  • EPISODE 101: PRIDE 2023 - PRIDE SHOULDN'T BE TERRIFYING
    Jun 30, 2023 – 01:44:28
  • EPISODE 100: NEW ENGLAND IS TERRIFYING
    Jun 17, 2023 – 02:09:48
  • EPISODE 99: REAL ESTATE IS TERRIFYING!
    Jun 2, 2023 – 01:50:59
  • EPISODE 98: DEATH IS TERRIFYING
    May 19, 2023 – 01:53:47
  • EPISODE 97: GLOBAL HORROR - ARGENTINA IS TERRIFYING
    May 5, 2023 – 01:53:02
  • EPISODE 96: REVENGE IS TERRIFYING
    Apr 21, 2023 – 01:56:01
  • EPISODE 95: GLOBAL HORROR - SOUTH KOREA IS TERRIFYING!
    Apr 6, 2023 – 01:46:57
  • EPISODE 94: WEDDINGS ARE TERRIFYING
    Mar 24, 2023 – 01:48:32
Recent Reviews
  • Pat from the block
    Relatable & fun
    Horror has never been afraid to take on topical issues. Matty and Andrew do an excellent job of talking real life horror and the movies we love so much.
  • Tony from Chicago
    Excellent Ear Candy
    To start, I’m embarrassed it took me this long to write a review, as I’ve been a fan since the pandemic. Now that that is out of the way. Matty and Andrew never disappoint with the thought-provoking, humorous and always entertaining takes on world events, pop culture, and entertainment. The format of this pod is quite fun, well organized, and the guys always have their fingers on the pulse of what’s topical in this crazy world we live in. Keep on thrilling, amusing and educating us; we are better people because of it.
  • Radjbb
    Love love love
    I don’t watch a lot of horror movies, but I listen to every episode of this show. I love the dives into the hx of each topic. Love the cold opening, always so entertaining. I also love to hear about a movie a may decide to watch (or not watch!). Love the rants. Love that their friendship shines through. And I love most that they make an effort to include all the alphabet in their discussions. So easily the other letters are left off discussions or observations and I love that they champion all of us. Here’s to 130 more eps!
  • walking into Walls
    Always enjoy!
    Been listening since the pandemic. Fun and insightful. Watched many good movies because of these two. I don’t always agree with their opinions, but always appreciate a different perspective.
  • Jill ChaCha
    A must for horror fans!
    Knowledgeable, honest, smart, clever—I could go on. As a life long horror fan, FriGay provides a needed perspective!
  • Leviathan10695
    Seriously amazing
    I stumbled upon this podcast, started listening from the beginning, listening to every episode and every side-cast episode, and I’m currently on episode 17. I love the format, I love the different segments, I love the way Matty and Andrew banter. It’s a great podcast with the best mix of horror in real life and in the media
  • maximus264
    Gays and Culture? Yes Please!
    I stumbled on this podcast and really love the way they discuss the culture and movies, they’re clearly hear because they love it and that comes across in the episodes. Check them out!
  • Krystal Lowe
    Slays
    These gents are clever, queer, and always up for a good scare. And I don’t just say that because I have the pleasure of knowing them IRL. ;) I’m not a big horror movie fan, so I slept on this podcast waaaay too long. The ‘Horror in Real Life’ segments hit on many issues that matter to me, and the ‘Horror in Media’ has me thinking I might try some of these scarier films… who needs sleep, anyway?
  • NerdStar48
    Thank you
    Just wanted to say thanks for the Pride 2023 episode, and for talking about how you both evolved on bi issues. I’ve really appreciated you two openly supporting trans and bi+ folks recently and self-reflecting. Of course, the movie recommendations and reviews are also fabulous but feeling more supported as a QT listened took me from a 4 to a 5. Happy Pride, friends!
  • Erikhigg
    Great Podcast!
    Such a great podcast. I have been listening for a couple of years now but finally got around to leave a review. Matty and Andrew are great hosts that are easy to listen to and are respectful of their each other and opinions. Thank you for all that you do!
  • Loosey LaDuca
    My fave pod BY FAR!
    FriGay is my absolute favorite podcast! As a horror fan, and a queer person, Matty and Andrew are incredibly relatable and their casual but researched conversations feel like you’re just gabbing with some of your friends. That said, you absolutely don’t need to be queer to love this pod. There are a LOT of horror podcasts out there but what makes FriGay so unique is how they relate the themes of the films with real life issues. Give it a listen. You won’t be disappointed!
  • FlicksAndFriendsPod
    A blast!
    This is probably the best horror podcast I’ve stumbled on in quite some time!
  • Crowe209
    best of the best
    Hosts who are knowledgeable AND funny AND sound great? Almost impossible to find in horror podcasting. This show is a delight and will cause your watchlist to explode. I mean, they paired The Neon Demon with The Eyes of Laura Mars. Genius!
  • team CourtNate and Anna Banana
    Everything I want in a horror pod!
    This is so cool! I love this! Right up my alley!!
  • Tif&Neil
    My favorite!
    I could listen to Matty and Andrew all day long. They could talk about the weather and make it intriguing. But their content goes above that and I couldn’t be more satisfied! It’s the only podcast I’ll listen to on repeat! Absolutely cherish them. <3 <3
  • ParkerWesley
    Much love to my guys of Frigay
    If I could give them seven stars I would. I can't even begin to get into how much I appreciate the work that Matty and Andrew put into this podcast. It's emotionally connecting on a level I did not expect when I first decided to listen to it but it got me hooked from the start and I can now proudly say I also support them on their Patreon page. I'm always looking forward to hearing what next month's theme is going to be
  • $kittyworld$
    Totally Bing-able!
    The two are super fun to listen to!!! I’m not into horror anymore but it doesn’t matter! And yes, treat spirits the same way you would want them to treat you!
  • Leenalwerk
    LOVE THEM
    I am *not* a horror fan, but my boyfriend is, and i am queer. Ive been bingeing for a few weeks from episode one. These two care a lot about their podcast and really try to give something special with the time you share with them. It’s been a great way to explore movies my partners talked about before without having to watch them.
  • Fridaythe13th12463578
    Wonderful horror and events commentary
    Matty and Andrew like horror movies and connecting the dots between what scares us on film and what scares us in real life. You may not always agree with their assessments on this or that horror movie, or with their politics. That's acceptable in a liberal democracy; despite the current political energy. It's nice when we agree. When we don't agree, that's an invitation for discussion. At the end of the day, we all love the horror genre, and in real life most of us believe that differences in real life are not necessarily cause for repression. We find our common ground and why that ground is worth our universal defense, as a people and a society. Great job, Matty and Andrew.
  • Leonerd_725
    New listener
    I just was told about this podcast yesterday and am already loving it. I can’t wait to go back and listen to some of the older episodes and laugh like I did with the recent ‘sex’ episode!
  • Talkin' Shiterature
    Lovely!
    This show was such a delightful surprise! I was expecting another movie podcast but instead it’s like having brunch with my frands! Definitely putting this podcast into my regular rotation :)
  • C-fat
    Fun and interesting and terrifying!
    A very engaging podcast that shows the parallels between the horrors we see in movies and those we see in real life. All delivered with a healthy side of sass.
  • Vansau
    Absolutely adore this show
    I love how Matty and Andrew talk about the real-life counterparts to the genre topics they’re discussing. They do so much research for each episode and do really interesting deep dives, you owe it to yourself to listen if you’re a horror fan.
  • Jkauffman42
    Finally Writing a Review
    Thanks so much for your amazing podcast. I stumbled upon it and now can’t get enough of it. I live in San Francisco and the city has been shut down for a good portion of 2020. So, I sit at home, drink my cocktails, put jigsaw puzzles together and listen to you guys and maybe smoke a lot of pot (hey, it’s legal here). You guys crack me up and turn me on to amazing horror films!! Keep it up!!! Stay Safe!! Jason Kauffman
  • Dorkyderic
    One of a kind, Ah-Mazing!!
    I found this podcast a few weeks ago and now I can’t get enough. After listening to a couple of episodes, I am now starting from episode one. I find myself wanting to watch the movies before the episode so I can fully get what they are saying and it makes it so much fun! If you’re a horror queer, I totally suggest this podcast. You won’t regret it!
  • Just-Lupo
    QUEERTASTIC
    Such a fun podcast that offers all the insights on recent and past horror films and shows. The hosts are very knowledgeable and have great opinions! Always finding new movies and shows to check out when I can’t figure out what to watch. Their intro is one of my favs too. Happy hauntings! ❤️🌈🌹
  • Elgin Thomas
    LOVE!
    I love the format and it’s so awesome learning about new movies to check out. They’re so funny too!
  • ahh sorryy
    Hilarious and Useful!!!
    Found this show hoping to see a discussion on some movies I enjoyed, and wasn’t disappointed! They cover a huge variety of horror and are very fun to listen to. I’ve gotten great recommendations from their podcast of movies I’ve never heard of, give these two a listen!!!!
  • O R I O N * * *
    Love them
    This podcast is one of my favorites. I’ve listened to every episode, some multiple times. The hosts have the chemistry of long time friends, and both bring their own unique perspectives to the conversation.
  • M U D B A L L
    Good mix of horror and today’s politics
    Two men discuss what’s terrifying “this week” on the world. About 35% talking about the the terrors of the real world and 65% talking and reviewing horror films. From classic horror to the latest releases on SHUDDER.
  • Joshua B Anderson
    Love them!
    Andrew and Matty have been with me on many a commute home from work, and I’ve enjoyed every single second of it. My favorite moment? Me being terrified to listen to HIGHWAYS ARE TERRIFYING bc driving, but having them comfort me with safe travels whilst listening to the episode. They care about what’s going on whilst giving great recs through “Whatcha been watching, bit*h?” while following it up with great views on the chosen horror films of the week. Love them! Love the podcast!
  • ChicagoKevin81
    Take a listen
    When the hosts cover horror movies the podcast is interesting. Unfortunately 2/3s of the podcast is just them ranting about their alt left politics on issues they seem to have little to no understanding of past whatever the socialist bullet points of the day on Twitter are.
  • jmackhh
    Hilarious tongue in cheek satire
    Okay these guys are on to something. I just reviewed FriGay the 13th on my podcast “Just One Listen” and these guys are outstanding. So niche they make every other niche jealous you can’t help but have fun listening to their bits and funny commentary. You guys are great! Keep it up!
  • bkclanton
    Love these wonderful people!
    Love this podcast! Andrew and Matty’s dynamic reminds me so much of my relationship with my best friend - they’re so fun to listen to! I’ve gotten several great movie recommendations while listening, which is an added bonus considering I’ve been watching a lot of trash TV during the pandemic, so thank you guys for that! Thanks so much for your honesty, humor and insight into a genre that I adore so much. Also, Matty’s kind of a Baldwin. (IYKYK). K, thanks! Byeee!
  • bertobob
    All the heart eyes
    Love, love, love this podcast. Simple as that. I quickly went from “Let me check this pod out” to “Let me listen to every archived episode!”
  • JPHuber
    Horror is the worst. This podcast is the best.
    I don't watch scary movies, but this podcast is fun, entertaining, exciting, and just all around amazing. And the best part? They won't scare you off. Also, you should leave a review, too! More details: the hosts are so funny and I have spent the past few months with Matty and Andrew helping me with all the house projects. Building furniture? Putting together a snow blower? They’re there all the way.
  • I Saw It On Linden Street
    Entertaining & Fun
    Matty & Andrew are quite the entertaining pair; able to hold court commenting on current events, personal stories and then segueing into some hilarious takes on Horror films that are sure to please the masses, from the hardcore fans to the casual sampler. Don’t miss them- this show is quality. Nice work gentlemen.
  • scottymayknow
    An amazing podcast
    This podcast is amazing such great discussions about movies, about the real world and definitely tying it back to the lgbt community. I love Andrew and Marty! Go listen now!
  • lrsheets
    7/7 Stripes.. and I don’t even love horror!
    Highly recommend this podcast if you like some political talk, great “to-watch” recommendations and really good movie analyzing! I’m not a horror movie person, per se, but I love movies in general. And I love IMDb-ing all the movies while i listen to look up the actors in the movies and for the older ones, to look at the pictures of the incredible outfits! It doesn’t hurt that my political views line up with theirs pretttty much spot on. Keep up the great work! 💚
  • LahDeeDah85
    Not a nightmare on podstreet
    Love this podcast, love how they recontextualize horror, love them.
  • JordanGerdes
    GREAT GENRE CONVERSATIONS
    Andrew and Matty both rule, and this podcast is no exception. Frigay brings important queer voices to the genre, dissecting and discussing our favorite films thru a lens so often disregarded in horror critique. If you are looking for a new horror podcast, this is it.
  • MikeSn!
    Wonderful show
    If you’re looking for a queer positive, informative and fun take on genre films and more then you’re definitely in the right spot. This is a great listen. If you’re not looking for those things, why would you click on a show with this title? Are you some kind of demented weirdo?
  • dannyruvolo
    Yas Queen!
    I just recently started listening from episode 1 and I’m already starting episode 21 right now. I’m obsessed with this funny and informative podcast and I listen to it everyday while I work. Everyone should subscribe, listen, and write a review! This is the first review I’ve written and I’m so happy to do so. Thanks Matty and Andrew for helping me get through pandemic!!
  • bloodhoney13
    Relatable and Enjoyable!
    I love listening to Andrew and Matty talk- as a fellow queer born-and-raised Hoosier, I really relate to Matty when he talks about political topics and whatnot. Also the humor is so uplifting and entertaining, this is great to listen to when getting ready for my day or driving home after work. As a queer horror podcaster, this makes me proud of the community of LGBTQA+ horror podcasters!
  • ROCmovies
    Entertaining!
    Andrew and Matty are awesome and have great co-host chemistry as they hit on so many intriguing topics. I came just expecting a horror movie podcast but was blown away by their interesting take on real life horrors. Worth the listen!
  • Beleiving_the_Bizarre
    Phenomenal Quality
    I really, really enjoy this podcast! It has great structure, fantastic audio quality, and the hosts really command the topics. Great voices for podcast and you can tell the hosts have such great chemistry. Definitely recommend if you want a hilarious, chill, and spooky pod!
  • Evilredcow
    Awesome Possum!
    Working thru the catalog from the beginning. Matty and Andrew are a true delight to listen to. They seem like the type of people that you could really enjoy hanging out with and discussing all manner of topics with and would respect your opinion whether they agree with it or not. They are simply who they are and want everyone to be able to do the same!
  • ShockedAndApplaud Podcast
    Awesome Delivery, Pace and Production
    Started listening on the Camping episode, but have been meaning to listen for quite some time (avid retweeter, though). Really love the humor and banter. Great mix of personal stories and fact-driven content. There are few voices in Podcasting that are as quickly paced and witty without talking over each other. As a trans lady who loves horror movies, this show is a wonderful find. Please, just keep doing what you're doing! There are so few shows that feel this genuine in their conversations. Subscriber for life!
  • Maxedout89
    Great Horror Voices
    Love the pod and hearing the unique perspectives provided! As a straight man they brought up so many different things I did not think about during movies. Highly recommended!
  • Kattygrrrl
    Great conversations!!
    What a fun and refreshing podcast that dives into relevant topics! I usually have a short attention span but FriGay kept me going and engaged! Love it!
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