A Gay and A NonGay

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In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

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  • angrylf
    Irresponsible, poorly researched takes
    Their trans content is irresponsible, misleading and completely WRONG in various instances - this is truly rotten content cloaked in ‘happy chatty gay fluff.’
  • joseluisjoae
    Amazing podcast
    Y’all are the first podcast I ever listened to! Thank you James for representing the LGBTQIA community and Dan thank you for being such a good friend to James and being an allied.
  • maximus264
    Thanks for the spoilers!
    Was enjoying this show but the bonus episode titles spoil Drag Race UK so I’m unsubscribing. It’s a pity because this is a lovely show and I’ve giggled listen. Just FYI, no other RPDR recap show features information in the title or description because they know fans will listen whatever.
  • This is an awesome podcast
    Great podcast
    This is a great podcast and I have laughed so much, and learned so much, from it. I love the hosts. Keep being great!
  • eelirej
    Worked for me
    As a mom of two gays and a nongay, with early indoctrination as conservative Christian, and subsequently being raised by the 12 step program, Dan and James and all their ups and downs and all over the places, along with their exceptional guests, have helped me laugh, gain perspective and make sense of it all. THANKS.
  • GayNongayFan
    Inclusive
    I appreciate listening to this podcast. It is great how they enjoy talking with each other. And they don’t take themselves too seriously.
  • Jillybrews
    Wonderful dynamic
    I love listening to these guys basically fighting with each other. It always makes me laugh or smile.
  • BradenLuBell
    Kind of offensive
    It’s a good concept and sometimes amusing but James’ perpetuating damaging body image issues, shallow clichés, and oblivious double standards tends to cancel out any valuable perspectives / calling out he manages and the result is kind of offensive and toxic, and frequently unfair to queer and non queer men alike, and Dan doesn’t really know how to call him out the way James calls him out.
  • Shainok
    Worth It
    I cannot stress how much I LOOOOOOOOOVE Gay And Nongay. They’re both so amazing and funny.
  • Jogle91
    My Must Have
    I absolutely love this podcast! It is my must have everyday! When I finally visit the UK, I must meet James! - Gay from Alabama USA
  • Coy 🎈🎈🎈
    Wow
    I am overwhelmed by this podcast. To find something like this at the end of the 2010s - a decade of turbulence and change is heartwarming. I am so happy to be part of James and Dan’s world 😍😍😍😍
  • hill_hunter14
    Hilarious and helpful
    As a gay man, these guys have helped me come to realizations in many ways in a brightening and hilarious ways. From dealing with breakups to the whole dating scene and dealing with social “norms”, they’ve really changed my life and have been there for me in so many ways! Sending love from a small, extremely non liberal town in the US! ❤️
  • denialjames
    Love these guys
    They are entertaining and funny, but they have given me so much information! I want to hug them both!
  • Tracygood1
    Love 💚
    Absolutely love and adore these two. They are hilarious and work perfectly with one another. Also able to be serious if the situation calls for it. Mostly I listen to them because they make my day brighter. Keep up the good works boys. 💋
  • Rumor94
    Super Gay
    I love it (and nongay too)
  • C Xander
    Amazing Podcast
    This podcast is a really great entertaining podcast. I listen to this on the bus, walking, biking and other things. This is a very great podcast to listen to as it is funny and very educational. Love them both!!!
  • JoeyB215!
    AWESOME PODCAST!!!!
    I love James & Dan!!! Great podcast so funny & I love listening to it!!!
  • TWINSPOKES
    Pleasure and Pain
    Pleasure at the beginning. I wanted to binge and enjoy the banter between the two. And then . . . It spirals into episode after episode of James belittling And condescending to Dan. James is a toxic gay who cahn’t believe anyone could see the world differently than him or like anything other than what he likes. Aaaaaargh !
  • JeffONYC
    Binge worthy!
    Still my favorite PodCast! The boys are real, their issues real, their friendship real!Very enjoyable short clips make this an easy listen! James and Dan have come a long way since the beginning, I love their show! PLEASE if in NYC please let me know, would love to meet you both!
  • OzzyOscar88
    PC 4 PC review
    Gay man here from Los Angeles and I am on Dan’s side of the whole #nofilter post. I think what Dan was doing and was trying to explain is he was simply showing off something amazing in the world. Pretty much saying not everything needs a filter to see beauty in it. The post was about the building not him. I think you took it in a more negative personal way and that’s probably because of where your head space is at. Just my opinion though. Your podcast is amazing nonetheless. I enjoyed listening the friendship grow from the first episode. One of my top 5 podcasts -Ozzie
  • Erica Jade Watts
    Great show
    I have learned so much from this show! They are also so funny. Love you both!!!
  • KimberlyKing13
    KimberlyKing13
    Super podcast with two very distinct, fun views. Love the dynamic. Especially love the #metoo episode regarding how we ALL need to talk about this topic. EVERYONE. Yes, women have suffered. But, men experience this as well. Sexual abuse is something we can all learn about and prevent. Thanks guys!
  • josherz7
    Kisses
    Just discovered this podcast 2 days ago and been binging it for 3 days straight...errr non-gay? Plz do a live show in Seattle!!! Plz 😍
  • boymeetsbi
    They slid into my DMs
    Not really, but I found this show through twitter and I’m so glad I did. I identify with both of the hosts on so many levels and appreciate the casual nature of their chats.
  • 1128alonzo
    I cannot believe it!!!
    I stumbled upon this podcast a few days ago and cannot stop listening. I heard “Gay questions, Gay answers” and decided to start from the beginning. “Colin strikes back” almost made me drive off the road with laughter. My best friend and roommate is also nongay and named Dan. After showing my roommate the podcast, it sparked great bonding and learning conversations. I truly appreciate these men and their perspective/dynamic because it is one that is not heard everyday. James is so honest/real and at times vulnerable. Dan really has his head on his shoulders and shook me a few times talking about certain topics. I’ll be sharing it with everyone!! Thanks Talia❤️ Keep it up Boys
  • Z in C
    Wonderful Podcast, Charming Hosts
    I can't get enough, James and Dan are great.
  • Linbnajnwkah
    First Podcast and I’m addicted!
    I started binging a few weeks ago, it’s hilarious! I look forward to it each week :)
  • BiSeattle
    Shared Perspective
    Nice show and as a bi man, great having both points of view. They do some good bits and are quite funny.
  • Diego Levine
    Great Podcasts, Can’t Miss Every Single Episode
    A lot of fun, a lot of great questions and a lot of fantastic opinions. I can’t miss every episode, now I’m on my way to listen all the episodes ~ You guys are so great!
  • vinyljunkie95
    Just what I was looking for
    To start, I have never gone out of my way to review anyting in my life - that's how much I enjoyed this podcast. Happened to stumble upon them while searching for an lgbtq oriented show, and was immediately hooked. Listened to all the episodes in like three days, and got my boyfriend into it. Hope there is much more to come. (also became a bit of James Barr fan boy in the process haha)
  • Danny From CT
    Very entertaining
    It is my goto podcast when I want to laugh. Humor is pretty subjective for everyone but this podcast is definitely worth a subscription. The episode nongay problems was just too funny. Thank you Dan for being so tolerant about the whole rock thing :-)
  • only1helton
    episode: "on religion"
    hahaha!! YES!! one of my favorite episodes yet!! i couldn't agree more and that's all i'm gonna say about that. i cannot say "YES!" enough! 😂👍🏼😎👏
  • Mollyballsoup
    Funny but(t) crude
    Dan and James are hilarious together, it’s really the story of their friendship (if you listen from the beginning. I took away 2 stars because there is no real base to the show, one straight man and one gay man being ~friends~ isn’t really news... surprise surprise they become friends and their first few episodes are the first few times they hang out, but the awkwardness that is there in the episode, is similar to when any two adult people start a friendship. Idk, if they focused on education, or even just a subject! every episode It would be phenomenal improvement, I really like listening to their conversations but recently they have hit a lull because the “bromance between a straight and a gay” can’t really go to far when you focus on the relationship itself. :/
  • NicLives92
    Made my weekend
    I binge listened to them this weekend and could not stop! This podcast is AMAZING!!
  • joel ch
    💯
    I'm bumming this podcast 👉👌
  • Tweise328
    Super D Duper and Hilarious
    Great Podcast! Super entertaining
  • Obasi Lewis
    Great show, weird format
    This show is great! I love their stories and how they interact with each other, but I could do without those weird 3 second interruptions. Like they're hella cringe sometimes...
  • Mags inshallah a
    Hilarious!
    I absolutely love this podcast! Best of all time for sure!
  • nathan532
    Funny sometimes
    It's alright. Average. Great. Amazing. Hilarious.
  • Zach41997
    Love it!
    Found this podcast 2 days ago and have already listened to every episode! Great way to pretend I'm not wasting away at my 9-5 job!!! You guys are hilarious
  • Bhix513
    Minority
    Idc if you're gay, you're a white male stop trying to play the minority/victim card.
  • DominicanMR
    Great job Boys
    I was just introduced to your podcast, I'm really enjoying it, I'm totally bumming it! Make them longer and also the automated British lady... she's annoying... apologies if she's your cousin or something. Keep it up!
  • Claudapuss
    Hysterical
    I love listening to these guys talk. Fantastic chemistry. I. Need. More!
  • Masselyn
    Loads of fun!
    Just found this podcast, and it's hilarious. Love having an honest glimpse into two friends, from the UK, dealing with life (with all its raunchy loveliness).
  • Jordan Raybould
    I'd wrestle either one of these bears
    and I think I'd win! Great podcast!
  • FatManderson
    lol Whatt???
    Don't let the offencive name stop you! Fun show, and I can't wait to see what happens in the coming episodes!
  • Dbear15
    Wonderful banter
    You two are delightful together. Keep 'em coming
  • reojames
    Good stuff!
    James and Dan have a great chemistry that makes for fantastic conversations.
  • GMoney1313
    Love this!
    James and Dan have the best connection! love it, will keep listening!
  • bcdunkel0820
    Enjoyable!
    Very enjoyable podcast. Love the perspective given by the hosts. Keep up the great work.
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