Nope! We're Not Monogamous

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Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box. 

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  • TravelingWildWoman
    This podcast is life changing!!
    I have been binging this pod and it’s seriously been life changing! I’ve learned so much about myself, relationship dynamics, conversations I need to have with partners, what I do and don’t want in a poly relationship, and so much more. Ellecia’s voice is like honey and so easy to listen to and she has the best guests on. I recommend this to anyone who wants to learn more about relationships beyond monogamy so they can have more of the sex and relationships they want.
  • CJ@noshamewithcj
    Not about convincing you but sharing info
    I love the candor and openness of Ellecia and her guests. Everyone brings their own approaches to ways of relating and I love that there is space to have these conversations.
  • Miss Lissa1
    Love this series
    Finally figures put how to review, lol. Love love love this podcast! I always get some kind of tip that I can apply to my life. Thanks for normalizing polyamory and thank you for having such honest, emotionally intelligent and valuable information. Keep them coming!
  • Deirdre Tshien
    A great listen
    Ellecia's candid exploration into relationships beyond traditional boundaries is invaluable. This podcast is engaging and thought-provoking, a great listen for those seeking insights into different perspectives on love and connection. Deirdre
  • Daisies 173383
    Entertaining and so useful!
    This podcast is wonderful! Each episode is engaging and light hearted while also teaching great lessons around mental health, culture, and obviously non-monogamy. I listen to this podcast every day! Thanks for the great content and life lessons.
  • Sw33twat3r
    I appreciate her acceptance
    I’m enjoying this podcast so much! I’m somewhat new to non-monogamy, one year, and the flavor of my primary relationship has evolved SO MUCH as we get more comfortable with it. We fall somewhere between swingers and poly, and having friends with benefits. I feel that I would be accepted and not judged by you! I feel empowered by you to just do what’s best for me and my relationship and not need a label. You and your guests are all so accepting and sex-positive. Thank you for spreading awareness and acceptance!
  • HealthPornPodcast
    Fun and educational for any human
    This podcast provides not only great advice for non-monogamous people, but for everyone in general. The tips we get for reflecting on our own emotions are tools anyone can put to use!
  • alittlebitangie
    Way to go! 👏👏
    Candid conversations about all aspects of live are SO important, so it's so cool to see that Ellecia is talking about a subject that is typically so hush-hush! Not many things DO fit into a one-size-fits-all box, so the more open we can be, the more we can help others who are out there trying to figure out life! 💕
  • Jlee.savegan
    The podcast you didn’t know you needed
    Timing is everything and I am so grateful that my aesthetician recommended this podcast exactly when she did. I needed it more than I could have expected. If you are considering non-monogamy, or are already in the deep end, this podcast is SO HELPFUL. Ellecia is such a warm and lively host and has such engaging conversations with each person. Every guest has brought on a unique view , and presented necessary tools on now to navigate relationships more consciously. How to show up for yourself and your partners, how to recognize, work with, and learn from your emotions…the important things. Who knew there was so much to learn in this world?? Truly, these conversations are thoughtful and have helped provide really great building blocks to continue to do personal work so that I can cultivate, and really appreciate, the fullest love-filled life. Give it a listen, find yourself in the stories shared, take the golden nuggets and grow along the ride.
  • salacious rumb
    Valid Validation
    I met Ellecia Paine through Instagram and she invited on her show to talk about my non-monogamy. Honestly, this is the first time I have been reached out to by someone who coaches in this community, so I started listening to her Podcast to get a feel for her style and… her Validation IS VALID! I have experienced a lot of tolerance about who I am (you just KNOW when someone doesn’t validate you but doesn’t have the intestinal fortitude to tell you up front your authenticity threatens them), and it is not the same as being validated. This Podcast may not solve all of your problems, but I believe if a Podcast is going to help you feel validated about being, practicing, feeling, or even being curious in ethical non-monogamy THIS WILL DO IT! And you deserve to be validated, so give this Podcast a solid listen!
  • SuzyQ131313
    Awesome!
    This podcast is amazing and exactly what I needed in my life right now. My wife and I are transitioning from monogamous to non-monogamous and the podcasts are 100% on point. Thank you so much!!
  • April Filiczkowski
    So needed!
    Thank you for bringing this out in the open so we can all be more free and have a place to relate.
  • mrschristoe
    Amazing!
    Thanks for creating a space for real life and polyamory. Love this so much!
  • Mari_from_NJ
    I felt so seen
    What a great way to talk about the challenges in non-monogamy. For me, it was always scary to think I had to do things I didn’t want to do. Like, sure I’ll end up doing things I don’t want to do if I don’t have clear boundaries. Boundaries are hard, and for many of us, it starts with being embodied. Great podcast!
  • S&J+1
    Heck yeah!
    You are too cool! So excited to hear more. Thanks for being you.
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